The Universe is Your Chiropractor
We are already whole. That is the big secret of this life. We are already whole and the world likes to tell us that we are not. No matter what shape your body is in, how heavy your heart is, what a beautiful life you have or don’t have, you are already whole. There is nothing outside of you that will make you feel whole. No beauty products, no significant other, no amount of money. If you are looking outside of yourself, you are not looking in the right place.
Being whole is understanding that the vessel for your soul, your human form, was the perfect vessel for your soul to be in on this Earth at this time. When our hearts are open, when we are living for our soul, when we feel connected, both spiritually and in the physical world, we will actually begin to FEEL whole. However, your wholeness was never in question for your soul. It’s really how you choose to live your life that makes you feel like all the parts of you are in alignment.
Your feeling of wholeness will come down to you beginning to live your best life. So what does that look like to you? What is your best life?
Envision that life. What do you look like? Who are you with? What are you doing? What environment are you in? What do your surroundings look like? How do you feel? What is your routine? What makes you feel free?
We are all out of alignment in some way. Think of the Universe as your Chiropractor. With each lesson you encounter and overcome, it’s like an amazing adjustment that puts you a little bit more back in place. The more you incorporate the lesson into your life and continue to show up for yourself, the less pain you have, the more in alignment you are.
If you’ve ever been to a Chiropractor, you know that sometimes the healing after an adjustment is a little painful. I was told by a doctor that it’s because your body is so used to making up for the mis-alignment that when you start to put it back into place, you experience pain. Your body is out of its comfort zone.
Same for your life. When you step out of your comfort zone and begin to make changes to things in your life that no longer fit into your best life, there is an adjustment process. It can be painful. People that are a part of your life now, may no longer fit the life you are building. Habits that you have now may no longer suit your new way of life. That’s ok. It is through the pain and the discomfort that we can grow into who we are meant to be and be aligned AF.
Listen, I’m not saying toss people to the curb, unless that’s where they belong. But maybe interactions are limited. Maybe you decide that you are no longer going to stand for being made to feel guilty or less than. If people in your life bring you down, you will be brought down. So it’s time to make a change...and what you decide is ok.
As you grow, people will try and bring you back down to their level. That is a fact. It’s not malicious. It is out of love and protection and fear that they do this. But you have every right to change anyway. I love the Rachel Hollis quote that says "Someone in the cheap seats does not get an expensive opinion on your life."
We allow. What we like in our lives, we allow. What we don’t like in our lives, we allow. This is powerful. When we can’t see how we are creating situations we don’t like, we are giving our power away. It’s truly when you stop blaming everything and everyone else, when you stop making excuses, that you are in the seat of power in your life.
The most powerful question you can ask yourself when you find yourself in a situation you don’t like is “how am I the problem here?”. When you’re the problem, you can then be the solution and that’s the most powerful seat you can be in.
These situations are beautiful lessons for you. The possible closing of karmic loops. The things that can put you back into alignment with your soul’s mission. Are you willing to see them?
The moment you become willing, is the moment you decide to evolve on your spiritual journey so you can live in alignment with what lights you up the most. It’s all achievable and all waiting for you.